I am also dumbfounded that you are judging a book you have never read before. (Quote - “I have not read 50 Shades of Grey, nor do I intend to, because of the anti-feminist nature of the book.”) So, really you making accusations that the book is “anti-feminist” and “abusive” is quite ridiculous, but also hilarious.
I do not see the correlation between abuse and consensual. I have never heard of a person consenting to being abused. It can’t be abuse if you don’t challenge the situation. And if you had read the book you would know that there were plenty of times where she told him she didn’t want to do something. She is a grown woman who has made the decision to enter a relationship with a man who comes with a lot of baggage.
Hope the next time you decide to make a statement you’ll be more prepared.
Thanks for messaging.